You and your children are invited to attend Rocken Dads' Breakfast this coming Thursday, November 1, at 7:00 a.m. in the Rockenbaugh Cafeteria. Head Football Coach, Hal Wasson, and Athletic Director, Kevin Ozee, will be speaking! Thank you to the Millicans, Foremans, and Penningtons for all of their work and preparation in organizing this event. Chick-Fil-A breakfast will be available. Please RSVP to the Millicans by Tuesday, October 30.
This week’s Young@Heart blog is dedicated to all of our
Rocken Dads and all they do for their family and kids. Having the privilege to
be a daughter, wife, and educator, I have a front row seat that allows me to
witness the excellent love shown by dads to their kids. Many men I know read a
daily article that teaches about family values and unconditional love which
gives points as to what a dad can do to be the best dad. In the spirit of that
daily article, I am sharing my thoughts about dads.
Upon occasion I have been asked to verbalize the things,
attitudes, and actions that create a successful child and eventually a
contributing and accomplished citizen. In my opinion, which is heavily
influenced by statistics and research, the top five things that help a child
develop into a successful adult include the following:
- Tell your child what you love about them. Say it. Often. Dads give directives or corrections statistically more than they tell their children what they love about them. Take time daily to share the love.
- Let your children know you. Kids love to hear stories about their parents’ childhood and adulthood. Tell your children about your successes and defeats.
- Get to know your children and listen to them. One strategy that works for us is to ask our sons each day to tell us what their high, medium, and low was for the day. I don’t know why it works, but it works. If we ask, “Tell me about your day.” Crickets. But, high/medium/low, we have words! I also recommend you follow your children on all social media. More about that in a future post.
- Show your child unconditional love. Your children will disappoint you. Gross negligence and mistakes on their part requires a consequence; through it all, make sure you express how your love has no limits.
- Have a fun-loving nickname for your child. I have done this since my first year of teaching. I found that having nicknames for children creates a unique bond. Many things annoy my teenage sons, but calling them by their nicknames seems to conjure up feelings of warmth and childhood. Yes, my Pookie and my Love Bug smile! If you don’t have one, try one of these that I have heard this week: Sweetie, Cool Breeze, T Man, Grahamster, Honey Bunch, or Boo.
I realize that parenting is no easy task! I have an 18 and
15 year old. I speak from experience! However, no matter your children’s ages,
at the end of each day, if a child is loved for what and who he or she is,
research says they will not only be successful in life but also as a future
parent and leader!
Thank you for allowing me to love your kids with you!
Rock on you Rocken Dads!
From your principal, a believer in your child, a mom, wife,
daughter and fellow Dragon,
Mrs. Young
Sources: National Fatherhood Initiative and Family First